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Pamela and Charlie Siderski

Pamela and Charlie Siderski

It seems as if Pamela Siderski was born to give. She and her second husband, Charlie, have lived here for just four years, but she has been a whirlwind at Mote Marine Laboratory.

Pamela quickly qualified as an Aquarium docent, became a member of Mote's Advisory Council and Education Committee, and worked in the Dolphin Whale and Sea Turtle Hospital, helping to raise $5,000 to support these animals she so dearly loves. It doesn't stop there. Pamela also aids Mote's development office in fundraising efforts that support Mote's research and education. Together, Pamela and Charlie make annual donations to Mote, promoting and participating in the 36-hour Giving Challenge.

Motivating a Giving Heart
For many, the sights, sounds and smells of what you experience early in life shapes the interests and attitudes you carry for the rest of your life. In New Jersey where she was born, Pamela's family often took her to the shore—her first exposure to the salt sea and its creatures. Growing up, she never lost this fascination.

Pamela graduated from Upsala College with a degree in theater arts, married, bore two lovely children, and settled in Cape Ann on Massachusetts's North Shore. There she turned her natural compassion for others and a talent for fundraising into a career-running her own nonprofit company. She ultimately became executive director of the Cape Ann chapter of the Red Cross in Gloucester.

Living in this important fishing port rekindled Pamela's interest in the sea. She worked with the U.S. Coast Guard on a program to teach fisherman—many of whom could not even swim—safety measures to help them survive in dangerous seas. Her children also inherited her love of the ocean world as the family explored the beautiful New England Coast where they lived.

Caring for the Marine World
After Pamela divorced, she married Charlie, a veteran from the Vietnam War, who in his quiet way shares her interest and unbounded enthusiasm for all things marine. Together they moved to help ensure Mote's future as a world-class research center. Pamela and Charlie are members of the Mote Marine Laboratory Legacy Society, and have included a bequest in their will to leave a percentage of their estate to Mote.

There are many ways you can support Mote Marine Laboratory research and education in your estate plans. We can help you design a plan that fits your circumstances. Please contact The Development Office at 941-388-4441, Ext. 309 or plannedgiving@mote.org to discuss your options.

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“The Lab means a lot to humanity; the more support it receives, the better future we will have.”
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“Mote is one of the most effective answers to ocean problems that I’ve ever come across. We firmly believe the Mote Laboratory Legacy Society offers us a unique opportunity to invest in mankind’s future. It is perhaps the most impactful and assured way for us to ‘give back’ to our society.”

A charitable bequest is one or two sentences in your will or living trust that leave to Mote Marine Laboratory and Aquarium a specific item, an amount of money, a gift contingent upon certain events or a percentage of your estate.

an individual or organization designated to receive benefits or funds under a will or other contract, such as an insurance policy, trust or retirement plan

 Bequest Language

The official bequest language for Mote Marine Laboratory is: "I, [name], of [city, state, ZIP], give, devise and bequeath to Mote Marine Laboratory [written amount or percentage of the estate or description of property] for its unrestricted use and purpose." 

able to be changed or cancelled

A revocable living trust is set up during your lifetime and can be revoked at any time before death. They allow assets held in the trust to pass directly to beneficiaries without probate court proceedings and can also reduce federal estate taxes.

cannot be changed or cancelled

tax on gifts generally paid by the person making the gift rather than the recipient

the original value of an asset, such as stock, before its appreciation or depreciation

the growth in value of an asset like stock or real estate since the original purchase

the price a willing buyer and willing seller can agree on

The person receiving the gift annuity payments.

the part of an estate left after debts, taxes and specific bequests have been paid

a written and properly witnessed legal change to a will

the person named in a will to manage the estate, collect the property, pay any debt, and distribute property according to the will

A donor advised fund is an account that you set up but which is managed by a nonprofit organization. You contribute to the account, which grows tax-free. You can recommend how much (and how often) you want to distribute money from that fund to Mote or other charities. You cannot direct the gifts.

An endowed gift can create a new endowment or add to an existing endowment. The principal of the endowment is invested and a portion of the principal’s earnings are used each year to support our mission.

Tax on the growth in value of an asset—such as real estate or stock—since its original purchase.

Securities, real estate or any other property having a fair market value greater than its original purchase price.

Real estate can be a personal residence, vacation home, timeshare property, farm, commercial property or undeveloped land.

A charitable remainder trust provides you or other named individuals income each year for life or a period not exceeding 20 years from assets you give to the trust you create.

You give assets to a trust that pays our organization set payments for a number of years, which you choose. The longer the length of time, the better the potential tax savings to you. When the term is up, the remaining trust assets go to you, your family or other beneficiaries you select. This is an excellent way to transfer property to family members at a minimal cost.

You fund this type of trust with cash or appreciated assets—and may qualify for a federal income tax charitable deduction when you itemize. You can also make additional gifts; each one also qualifies for a tax deduction. The trust pays you, each year, a variable amount based on a fixed percentage of the fair market value of the trust assets. When the trust terminates, the remaining principal goes to Mote as a lump sum.

You fund this trust with cash or appreciated assets—and may qualify for a federal income tax charitable deduction when you itemize. Each year the trust pays you or another named individual the same dollar amount you choose at the start. When the trust terminates, the remaining principal goes to Mote as a lump sum.

A beneficiary designation clearly identifies how specific assets will be distributed after your death.

A charitable gift annuity involves a simple contract between you and Mote where you agree to make a gift to Mote and we, in return, agree to pay you (and someone else, if you choose) a fixed amount each year for the rest of your life.
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